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Nine months so far

Nine months ago I started homeschooling my oldest son. Today I remember those days when I was hesitant about starting this journey. It was until God spoke to me clearly about homeschooling my kids that tremendous joy and excitement filled my heart. God truly changed my perspective about homeschooling. It has been a commitment for our whole family. For instance, my husband is in charge of doing Bible studies with our kids every morning, while I am more focused on the academics (Classical education). I can tell you that these past months have been wonderful. We’ve bonded as a family. We’ve grown together in our faith, and little by little the Lord has let us see the fruit of our labor. To listen to our son praying, quoting the Bible and eager to read the Word of God have brought us so much joy.

For my husband and I, the most important thing about homeschooling our children is to raise them in a way they can learn who Jesus is and who they are in Him. Our mission is to fulfill what Psalm 1: 3 says:

“They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each season. Their leaves never wither, and they prosper in all they do.”

Today, I can only say: I love homeschooling!

Posted in Homeschooling, Motherhood.


A cheerful giver

A couple of months ago, my son lost his favorite cars in a friend’s home. Everyday he’d asked for them until he realized that they wouldn’t come back. Last week we told our son that he needed to give away two of his favorite cars to a kid that attends Freedom Square, a feeding program from our church. At first he was very hesitant but he ended up giving both cars away with a joyful heart. We were very proud of him.

Two days ago, my friend called me to let me know that she found my son’s cars. We were so excited. We could hardly believe it. Later in the day, we meditate about the situation and we came to the conclusion that God was teaching us two things: 1) when He calls us to give to others something we cherish, the best is to obey him; and 2) he rewards those who give with a cheerful heart.

I’m thankful with the Lord for not only teaching me but also my children about the importance of walking  in obedience to him and to be cheerful givers.

“The LORD our God will we serve, and His voice will we obey.” (Joshua 24:24)

“As every man purposeth in his heart, so let him give, not grudgingly or out of compulsion; for God loveth the cheerful giver”  (2 Corinthians 9:7)

Posted in Living words, Motherhood.


Merry Christmas!

Christmas is such a wonderful time of the year. This is especially true when we realize that it’s not about giving and receiving gifts or having a good dinner with family and friends.  Although those things are good, we know that Christmas is about the most amazing miracle ever to occur in human history; the coming of the son of God to earth to reconcile human beings with their Creator and Father.  This is not a fairy tale about a baby but about a living God sending His son to the earth on a rescue mission for his beloved bride.  Therefore, it is essential that we keep Jesus Christ at the very center and heart of our Christmas celebration.

My prayer is that during these days we all can take a moment to thank God for the opportunity he has given us to spend time with our loved ones. I encourage you to take time to thank God for the silent moments cherished, the victories experienced,the losses endured, the kind words presented, the songs sung, the games played, the stories told, the little kisses offered. Every moment with your loved ones matters not only for the present but for eternity.

Posted in Living words.


Prayer vs. sin

“Praying and sinning will never live together in the same heart. Prayer will consume sin or sin will choke prayer.” ~ J.C. Ryle

Posted in Motherhood.


Summary of Charlotte Mason’s 20 Principles

1. Children are born persons – they are not blank
slates or embryonic oysters who have the potential of
becoming persons. They already are persons.

2. Although children are born with a sin nature,
they are neither all bad, nor all good. Children from
all walks of life and backgrounds may make choices for
good or evil.

3. The concepts of authority and obedience are true
for all people whether they accept it or not.
Submission to authority is necessary for any society
or group or family to run smoothly.

4. Authority is not a license to abuse children, or
to play upon their emotions or other desires, and adults
are not free to limit a child’s education or use fear,
love, power of suggestion, or their own influence over
a child to make a child learn.

5. The only means a teacher may use to educate children
are the child’s natural environment, the training of good
habits and exposure to living ideas and concepts. This is
what CM’s motto “Education is an atmosphere, a discipline,
a life” means.

6. “Education is an atmosphere” doesn’t mean that
we should create an artificial environment for children,
but that we use the opportunities in the environment
he already lives in to educate him. Children learn from
real things in the real world

7. “Education is a discipline” means that we train a
child to have good habits and self-control.

8. “Education is a life” means that education should apply
to body, soul and spirit. The mind needs ideas of all kinds,
so the child’s curriculum should be varied and generous
with many subjects included.

9. The child’s mind is not a blank slate, or a bucket
to be filled. It is a living thing and needs knowledge
to grow.
As the stomach was designed to digest food,
the mind is designed to digest knowledge and needs no
special training or exercises to make it ready to learn.

10. Herbart’s philosophy that the mind is like an empty
stage waiting for bits of information to be inserted puts
too much responsibility on the teacher to prepare detailed
lessons that the children, for all the teacher’s effort,
don’t learn from anyway.

11. Instead, we believe that children’s minds are capable
of digesting real knowledge, so we provide a rich, generous
curriculum that exposes children to many interesting, living
ideas and concepts.

12. “Education is the science of relations” means that
children have minds capable of making their own connections
with knowledge and experiences, so we make sure the child
learns about nature, science and art, knows how to make
things, reads many living books and that they are physically fit.

13. In devising a curriculum, we provide a vast amount
of ideas to ensure that the mind has enough brain food,
knowledge about a variety of things to prevent boredom, and
subjects are taught with high-quality literary language
since that is what a child’s attention responds to best.

14. Since one doesn’t really “own” knowledge until he
can express it, children are required to narrate, or tell
back (or write down), what they have read or heard.

15. Children must narrate after one reading or hearing.
Children naturally have good focus of attention, but
allowing a second reading makes them lazy and weakens
their ability to pay attention the first time. Teachers
summarizing and asking comprehension questions are other
ways of giving children a second chance and making the
need to focus the first time less urgent. By getting
it the first time, less time is wasted on repeated readings,
and more time is available during school hours for more
knowledge. A child educated this way learns more than
children using other methods, and this is true for all
children regardless of their IQ or background.

16. Children have two guides to help them in their
moral and intellectual growth – “the way of the will,
” and “the way of reason.”

17. Children must learn the difference between “I want”
and “I will.”
They must learn to distract their thoughts
when tempted to do what they may want but know is not right,
and think of something else, or do something else,
interesting enough to occupy their mind. After a short
diversion, their mind will be refreshed and able to will
with renewed strength.

18. Children must learn not to lean too heavily on
their own reasoning.
Reasoning is good for logically
demonstrating mathematical truth, but unreliable when
judging ideas because our reasoning will justify all
kinds of erroneous ideas if we really want to believe them.

19. Knowing that reason is not to be trusted as the final
authority in forming opinions, children must learn that
their greatest responsibility is choosing which ideas to
accept or reject.
Good habits of behavior and lots of
knowledge will provide the discipline and experience to
help them do this.

20. We teach children that all truths are God’s truths,
and that secular subjects are just as divine as religious
ones.
Children don’t go back and forth between two worlds
when they focus on God and then their school subjects;
there is unity among both because both are of God and,
whatever children study or do, God is always with them.

(See a parallel with the original text here:  http://www.amblesideonline.org/CM/20Principles.html)

Posted in Homeschooling.


A servant’s heart

As I’m typing these words, I can only give thanks to Jesus for what He’s done in my heart. During the last couple of weeks, my heart has been filled with very special joy, peace, and passion for my profession, my calling, my mission: to be a godly wife and mom. To serve my family with a joyful heart.

Since I decided to be a stay at home mom, I’ve enjoyed every moment.  However I cannot say that everything has been easy. Some days I’ve  felt: exhausted, alone or isolated from the outside world, dealing with anger and frustration, and concerned about how to raise my kids God’s way. During these difficult moments, the Lord has whispered to my ear: “You are not alone. I’m with you. You are where I’ve called you to be. Don’t be discouraged. When you are weak I am strong. Cry out to me and I will respond. I’ll give you the wisdom, the patience, the love, the mercy, the grace, the compassion, the strength you need at all times. When I came to earth I didn’t come to be served but to served. So do the same with a glad heart. Do it unto me.”

What can I respond to my Lord’s words?  I can only run to him, ask forgiveness for trying to do things with my own resources instead of depending on him, lay down all my burdens before him, and trust that He will give me everything I need, as He states in his Word.

Until today, He’s been faithful. I’ve been asking him to give me a servant’s heart and He’s done it. I can see and feel it.

With God, motherhood is a wonderful journey. We don’t only get to understand better the heart of God as a father, but He also gets to work in us in a very deep and special way. All this to accomplish one goal: to become more like him.

“Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.”Philippians 4:6

“Morning, noon, and night I cry out in my distress, and the Lord hears my voice.”Psalm 55:17

Posted in Motherhood.


What type of mom are you?

Today, as I was reading several blogs, I found an interesting chart. It presents a comparison between a Super mom and an Abiding mom. As I read through it, I asked myself what type of mom I was. Certainly, I found myself  a little bit in both. To be honest, it is easy to fall into becoming or trying to become a Super mom. However, being a Super mom always ends up in exhaustion and frustration. I pray that the Lord helps you and I to parent not in our own strength and wisdom but in his. I pray that He gives us his grace, mercy, love and compassion for our family. You and I have a great mission: it is time for you and I to be determined to build our home God’s way!

“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.” ~Ephesians 6:4

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Posted in Motherhood.


180 Movie

Posted in Just Thinking.


Jesus

“Jesus does not give recipes that show the way to God as other teachers of religion do. He is Himself the way”
— Karl Barth

Posted in Quotes.


Friendship

“Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: “What! You too? I thought I was the only one.”
— C.S. Lewis

Posted in Quotes.